The feeling of defeat has been mostly analyzed as a clinical and psychological phenomenon; however it seems that the social aspects are of high importance. To understand the phenomenon of "exclusion", an interview was conducted with people with the feeling of defeat – considering three criteria: authority’ s claims, psychologist diagnosis, and the feeling of defeat test-continued to reach theoretical saturation in 65 individuals. The study subjects were chosen from psychological clinics in five different regions in Tehran which are the following: the center of district 6, the west in the district 8, the north in the district1, the west in district 5 and the south in district 18, and the quota sampling was implemented purposefully. Participants were chosen among individuals from 25 to 45 years old in two groups. The first or second generation of migrants from villages to Tehran metropolis, the second those who were born and are living in Tehran now. To this aim, semi-structured interviews for data collection and thematic analysis for data analysis were conducted. The findings suggest that the experience of defeat could cause experience of discrimination, exclusion, and the decline in social participation in individuals and consequently result in the feeling of despair, anxiety, social isolation, and lack of sense of belonging. "Exclusion" and erosion of social capital lead to being someone else, distancing, the fear, and lack of power for social integration. The migrants (as excluded group) suffer from social confusion, the sense of meaninglessness, being powerless, loneliness, and isolation. The feeling of freedom alongside discrimination, the tendency for reverse migration, immigration, traumas, mistrust, disappointment, and shame are the consequences of being excluded among the group of migrants.