This essay emphasizes the necessity of establishing "friendship" in the
classroom by studying different aspects of "competition". Establishing
competition among students and comparing them to each other leads to
jealousy, feeling of inferiority,weakeningof self- esteem and learning desire.
When this kind of competition links to encouragement and reward, its
negative traces will increase remarkably. To develop learners capabilities and
to occur learning in a humanistic environment, we must shift external
competition to internal competition and friendship. Studies show that
cooperative learning approach has been effective in this field. Teamwork,
thinking and consulting of students together, feeling of social and individual
responsibility and close relationship of teacher with students are the most
important features of cooperative learning. In addition to reinforcing affective
relationship, development of verbal, communicative, and mental skills, it has a
condign effect on increasing the feeling of social responsibility, academic
achievement and students self-esteem. Performing this approach needs
cooperation of home and school, ability of teacher in class management, exact
planning, and appropriateness of educational system elements.